Sustaining in Relationship...

When seeing or hearing the word relationship, the face goes like anything (annoying) to some people, and to some, it just puts a smile on the face, as if this would be their copycat. It’s so simple; the word relationship puts anyone in either of the categories. 

One, it might bring happiness, where it reminds about their present relationship. Second, it could be the other side, which puts them in frustration of being betrayed. Everyone’s situation is not the same; so far whatever happened is for good, let’s forget about the negative past. Having this in mind, it pops up with a question, why do some stay in one relationship forever and others can’t?

..... art of staying together.....

It’s the positive side of love and maturity of a person that plays hand-in-hand. The love that developed between the two holds them together in any situation. Which doesn’t provoke the second thought of doing a breakup? And, as everyone says, maturity doesn’t come with age. Here, maturity takes up a different meaning; it’s about understanding each other to the fullest and handling them accordingly. 

When this kind of maturity binds with love, it makes the bond stronger and makes the vision clear for the long run. To be clear, this Love and Maturity is not a character or attitude. It’s a typical type of quality that stands alone, like air. It’s everywhere, if you want to have a long run in the relationship; you just have to inhale it. So, it’s a quality that could be acquired or not, with the willingness of the person.

It's feels Okay while climbing over difficulties.....

This happens with those who are in a relationship. But with others, it’s the opposite; it makes them break up or move on to the next relationship. With them, the love developed based on each one's desire. Either of them wants the partner to change accordingly to their desire. And, on the happier side, they too do the same, at the initial stage of the relationship. But, as it goes, they find this change difficult, to maintain throughout the relation. So, this bursts out one fine day and they move on. 

The hardest part with those who can’t stay in a relationship is the maturity to handle each of them fails. When both want to take up their original face, they find it difficult in accepting them as such and ends up in a breakup. Even when they move to the next relationship, the same issue persists.

Here, the maturity to accept someone with their originality fails. Only the individual desire stands in front, leaving all the other good ones behind. The commitment to stay together becomes nothing with them.

Instant Tips, that makes a forever Bond.....

Congratulations..!! To those who are already in a relationship. All the best..!! For their long run. And to those who find it difficult in staying in a relationship, this will help to understand how easy and loving it is, to stay in a relationship. This suits either gender. Sustaining in a relationship is the art of showing your originality and understands your partner with the same. You don’t have to show off or change yourself according to your partner’s desire. You both have to be the same, as, who you are. 

• Let both of you sit and share your originality. 

• Talk as much as possible. 

• Praise the originality of each other. 

• Share every little thing. 

• Gifting something your partners likes doesn’t mean that, you have changed to your partner’s desire. The one who is receiving a gift shouldn’t expect your partner to get changed as it goes on. Gifts are refreshments to a relationship. 

• Apart from all these, a strong commitment is required to stay forever. Commitment should persist between the partners and not concerning marriage or parent’s wish. 

• Stop comparing your relationship or partner with others. Doing this shows your level of satisfaction with your partner. 

• Provide space and value for each one's opinion. 

• Enjoy the positive side, accept and encourage the negatives to overcome it, if any. 

• When you are about to show your face (anger) to your partner, think and then move further. In case, is misunderstood, accept it, apologize and then forget it. 

• Never climb on the peak again, to prove yourself right. Don’t ever pin back old issues when arguing about something else. Doing so might leave an impression of revenge and blame over the loved one.

• Never overthink, if happening so, be open enough to say, what made you think that way. Be open to each other, whether it’s right or wrong. This will always let you in a smoother conversation. 

• If one goes wrong, the other should correct, guide, and explain to them, where they have gone wrong? Rather than showing your face (anger) to them.

On the whole, sustaining a relationship is like rowing a boat. The smoother and firmer you row, the longer it goes without trouble. You just have to keep this one thing in mind, take care of the small things, and the big things will fall on their way. As said earlier sustaining a relationship is like art, where the originality wins, in the way you handle it. 

Love is always Beautiful..!!